Recently I met up with one of my friends from high school
who ended up going to Sacramento State for college. We began to talk about how
college has been going for us and reminiscing on our high school years. After a few minutes I realized that my
college experience was not anything like hers. She said that she missed high
school and how easy it was, that you were in a class for an entire year and
that she missed how comfortable it was. I on the other hand enjoy taking new
classes every semester, meeting new people, and the spontaneity of it all. I
thought that her college experience would have been much more exciting and
enjoyable for her given that she was living on her own now and had a newfound
freedom. Although she has this new freedom I realized that going to Stan was
one of the best decisions I could have made. I may not get the typical “college
experience” but I have made a lot of great friends, memories, and many
opportunities available to me. Since my friend has already taken out loans to
pay for her housing the thought of studying abroad for her is almost
nonexistent. My dream to study abroad is a little more tangible because I have
not had to take out loans. Coming to college I was worried about running into
people from my high school but that no longer crosses my mind. My friend may
want to go back to high school but I on the other hand am happy to be in
college.
I agree with you. I am not fully living the "college experience" at the moment because I'm very familiar with turlock, and when I see my friends that are going to Sac, SJSU, or UCLA they are living it up away from home. Then again they are on their own with no familiar faces or family. I'm glad I'm here at Stanislaus and I hope to study abroad too.
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